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Paolo's avatar

I think it's worth disaggregating the activities of individuals, rather than just dividing folks into devoted/engaged vs not.

I may be biased by my personality, but I've always been a procrastinator. I'm an intellectual - I loved college and was very engaged in learning and my classes; today I work a challenging intellectual job and for a hobby read and comment on Substack essays.

Even so, I never turned in anything or started studying for an exam until the very last minute. To this day, I still routinely have to do all-nighters to hit deadlines because I procrastinate. And, if there's an acceptable way to avoid doing it/procrastinate longer - baby, you get I'm finding it and exploiting it.

I don't know why I'm like this. But I was not alone - lots of people (if felt like almost everyone at times) just don't do the grind part of work until they have to, even if they will get a lot from it and enjoy it.

If they'd had the permissive, forgiving/manipulable culture they have today when I was in school, or if I was in a less forgiving profession, I am sure I'd be on the "turning in assignments late/not doing tests" column of the ledger, even as I loved being in college and learning.

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Yancey Ward's avatar

"We came out of it more strongly committed to activities we value highly, including passionate interests and family relationships."

Did we actually do this, or did we just withdraw from everything. I would hesitant to put too much emphasis on how, for example, the participants in online-dancing are more numerous than the previous in-person participants. Each of those new on-line participants could be substituting on-line participation for some other in-person activity they used to do pre-pandemic.

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