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John Alcorn's avatar

Re: "Here they are in the safest, most welcoming, most inclusive, most antiracist places on the planet, but many of them were acting like they were entering some sort of dystopian, threatening, immoral world.”--Jonathan Haidt

There is a major blind spot in safety on campus: Sex.

There really are dystopian, threatening, and immoral dimensions to the battle of the sexes on campus.

The problem rests on 3 empirical premisses:

1. Young women are more likely than young men to seek a monogamous relationship. (At most residential campuses, this kind of mismatch is exacerbated by imbalance in the sex ratio on campus, where women substantially outnumber men.)

2. What students call "going out" -- the long-weekend, nocturnal party-and-dating scene -- is awash in alcohol. Why need a drug? Why alcohol, more than other readily available mind drugs? Because alcohol *disinhibits.* Many students drink in order to "remove the mask." (Perhaps status anxiety would otherwise inhibit their sociability or openness.)

3. Sex then usually takes place in a private setting (a dorm room or frat house bedroom), behind closed doors. If something goes wrong in the encounter -- whether coercion during the encounter, or murkiness about consent because of drunkenness, or deep "morning-after" regret when sober -- it is hard to establish the facts. "He said, she said."

There are strong norms among students against sexual predation, but norm-enforcement is often thwarted by intractable information problems. Rumors circulate. Students often don't know what or whom to believe. Moreover, students mistrust the motives/competence of "the machine" (official campus investigation of complaints). They are caught (or ensnare themselves?) in no-man's land, where neither norms nor authorities can reliably provide safety or remedy.

An irony is that this real blind spot in safety occurs also because students believe, per college ideology, that safety is an entitlement, regardless of risk-taking. This belief lowers the guard and provides cover for heavy drink.

It is remarkable that elites send their offspring into the moral mess of the battle of the sexes on campus. Perhaps elites feel trapped when they endorse and fund, for their daughters and sons, the college mix of formal credentials, peer matching in romance, delay of adulthood, and rather risky rites of passage.

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Jason Manning's avatar

"Because Haidt talked about a culture of victimhood, he was immediately coded as right-wing." Imagine what it feels like to be the guy he was talking about when he brought it up (he was talking about an article by myself and Bradley Campbell). FYI, I am employed in a sociology department.

To be fair, I am usually in the lower right quadrant of the compass ( I subscribe to Kling, after all), and Haidt probably isn't. Haidt also seems to prefer the term "safety culture," which I think misses the idea that it's only safety for designated victim groups (members of designated privileged groups might actually deserve some horrible punishment). Actually, Campbell and I reject "snowflake" for similar reasons, aside from its almost purely moralistic connotation.

To be fair to us, Campbell and I have went on untill we're blue in the face about why we think the label makes sense for comparative purposes (it is juxtaposed to honor and dignity cultures) and isn't meant as a slur (even if we find many aspects of the culture objectionable). I am writing some more about the topic on Substack (e.g., https://jasonmanning.substack.com/p/moral-cultures-2-victimhood)

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